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Parentune - Nutrition Corner is a focused section for you to get advice from Parentune Experts with respect to the right Nutrition for your child. Keeping in line with our endeavor to bring about a quality shift in Child Development, we have started this section called Nutrition Corner.

Friday, 16 May 2014

Parentune.com : Being a Mother- The Amazing Bond

In today's time when every things manages to give one happiness and
surprise, i realised that a child manages to do just that in the simplest possible way.

I was expecting my second baby when my elder son was 4 years old,
I believed I would have a tough time explaining him what's coming next but i was in for a pleasant surprise. To make the it easier for my son to connect and understand, I took him with me in the sonography sessions

Then one day we all were going for a family dinner and my father in law was driving the car. He didn't see the bump ahead and Shaurya, my elder son, shouted at him "dadu! My little brother will get hurt". I was so taken aback!! I had not expected that at all. All throughout the journey he kept turning from the front seat to look at me and was constantly asking me if I was ok!

The bond and love of a child and mother can only be felt once u become a mother.

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Thursday, 15 May 2014

Parentune.com : Winter Food For Children

Ever wondered why your ‘little sunshine’ unexpectedly crinkles her nose on eating her favorite fruit- strawberry or refuses to eat her carrot beyond a bite? May be the strawberry tastes sour and the carrot tastes bland, and gorging on them is not fun anymore! Don’t badger yourself crazy over the issue, as it may be a mere case of seasonality. Foods that are seasonal have better taste, texture and flavor than artificially produced food that travels thousands of miles to reach the supermarket shelves. Foods that are chilled and shipped lose flavor at every step of the way, i.e. during chilling, during transportation and on being stored in warehouses. These may even be injected or artificially prepared to meet the demand for that food.

On the other hand, fresh and locally harvested foods are ‘real’ foods having their full flavors intact, which are released only on being eaten. Even research suggests that eating with the season is healthier as there is a variation in the nutrient content of veggies when they are harvested off-season. Besides the fresh fruits and vegetables, there are certain other delectable ones like dried-fruits, nuts, grains, beverages and dishes which have seasonal relevance.

Indian seasons are basically divided into 3 parts: summer, monsoon and winter season. In this series of seasonal foods, I cover winter foods this month.

Winter Windfall

What’s better than the savory- rich delights on a nippy, crispy winter day to thaw you and warm you up from the inside out?

Fruits: Winter lugs with it a bagful of fruity delights. Pamper your child with a whole array of fruits ‘handpicked’ by my son in order of his preferences. Hence, this list has the endorsement of a child:-

1. Banana: A fruit loved by kids universally, it is delicious and easy to consume. It has myriad health benefits attached to it. It is a major source of energy, regulates blood pressure and reduces chances of muscle cramps. It also boosts cardiovascular health, controls sugar levels and is a mood-lifter. Banana has Vitamins C and B6, calcium, potassium, fiber and lots more. It is suitable to be consumed round the year.

2. Orange: Tangy and savory, oranges are essential for vision, help against oral & lung cancer risk and reduce blood cholesterol. They provide a good amount of vitamin C to the body and are a good source of vitamins A & B, fiber, potassium and calcium.

3. Kiwi: One of the exotic fruits that are available all the year round, It helps maintain BP, proper fluid balance in the body, proper cell & brain function, normal muscle contraction and nervous health. It has more vitamin C than oranges. It also has fiber, antioxidants and potassium.

4. Grapes: This exquisitely tangy fruit is good for boosting immunity and nervous health. It has very potent antioxidants that are beneficial for heart health . It contains vitamins A, C, B6 & K, folate, calcium, iron, manganese, potassium and fiber to regulate the digestion in a child.

5. Guava: One of the richest sources of vitamin C, guava comes with a bevy of benefits. It builds immunity by preventing cell damage caused by free radicals; it helps in the absorption of iron; necessary for heart functioning and improves eyesight. Besides being loaded with vitamin C, guavas are loaded with nutrients like vitamin A, B, E, K, potassium, copper, iron, manganese, calcium, zinc, phosphorous and selenium.

6. Pineapple: Another exotic and juicy fruit that is a powerhouse of vitamin C, manganese and fiber, it strengthens immune system and helps in the formation of bones.

7. Pomegranate: Pomegranate is packed with more antioxidants than green tea and even berries. It strengthens immune system, gives energy and is great for the skin and liver. It is a rich source of potassium, iron and vitamin C.

8. Pear: Pear boosts the immune system, keeps skin allergies at bay and is good for eye and hair health. It aids in healing of wounds and repair of blood vessels. Pear also regulates BP and is recommended in case of heart ailments. It is rich in vitamins C, A, folic acid, potassium and fibre.

9. Cheeku: It helps in preventing heart ailments, boosts immunity and takes care of eye health. It contains vitamins A, B, C and E.

10. Indian Gooseberry (Amla) It is a repository of vitamin C and must be taken regularly to build immunity against flu, common cold and other viral infections. It could be added to mint chutney or to a glass of vegetable juice to fortify it further.

11. Apple: Apples are packed with vitamins A, B-1, B-2 and C, as well as minerals such as calcium, potassium, iodine, iron and phosphorous. These nutrients are essential to your child's growing body, particularly in the bones, tissues, muscles, organs, skin and blood. The antiviral properties of apples can help in attacking bacteria in the mouth, cleansing teeth and strengthening gums.


Vegetables: While children may fuss for lack of adequate food choice during summers, winter season offers a wide and vibrant range of vegetables such as:

1. Fenugreekleaves (Methi): These are rich in calcium, phosphorous and iron. Their consumption regulates blood sugar and bad cholesterol. They are good for hair health too. My son just loves the crisp methi paranthas and the methi bhaji that are an exclusive winter treat.

2. Spinach: Popeye with his spinach tin was my son’s favorite toon. Although he moved on from cartoon watching to watching more meaningful shows as he grew into a teen, spinach stuck on with him, and I’m definitely not complaining! Spinach builds immunity, helps in creating red blood cells and thus prevents anemia. Eating spinach regularly ensures healthy skin, bones, teeth and blood vessels. A mighty source of myriad nutrients, spinach should be a regular part of your healthy eating plan. It’s a rich source of vitamins C, A & K, folate and iron. Palak panner and palak paranthas are loved by my son and many of his friends.

3. Cabbage: It helps reduce bad cholesterol and BP, and builds immunity.
It is a powerhouse of vitamin K & a decent source of vitamins C, B6, folate, fiber, manganese and potassium. It may be surprising, but my 15 year old has always liked this vegetable when cooked lightly in mustard seeds and whole red chillies without too much masala.

4. Sweet potato (Shakarkandi): It is a very good energy source that controls BP, lowers cholesterol and keeps blood sugar levels stable. It helps improve digestive health, plays a crucial role in vision, and boosts immune system's response to infections and illnesses. It is a great snack with nutrients such as vitamins C & A, complex carbohydrates, potassium and fiber. Give a boiled shakarkandi with a pinch of salt and a dash of lemon to your kid instead of cookies to make for a healthy snack.

5. Beetroot: This ever-blushing vegetable controls Blood Pressure and reduces the risk of heart ailments and osteoporosis. It helps lower bad cholesterol, prevents anemia and fatigue. It is loaded with folic acid and is also a good source of vitamins A, B & C, and minerals like iron, calcium & potassium. Make it a part of the salad platter for your kid every day.

6. Ladyfinger (Bhindi): Also known as okra, this vegetable reduces bad cholesterol, risk of heart ailments and diabetes, controls BP, looks after bone & teeth health and prevents anemia. It is a good source of folate, calcium, potassium and fiber. Most kids are die-hard fans of bhindi as they know it.

7. Cauliflower & Broccoli: Both the vegetables have similar nutrient profiles. They have cancer-fighting ability; they build immunity and are great for the health of eyes, teeth, gums and blood vessels. These cruciferous vegetables are high in potassium, vitamins C & A.

8. Mustard Greens (Sarson): It is essential for strengthening immunity, for bone health, against anemia and blood clotting. Like most other greens, sarson is high in calcium, folate, vitamin C and fiber. Your family’s winter is declared incomplete if you haven’t gorged on ‘makki ki roti & sarso ka saag’ combo- A true body warming and heart-warming dish!

9. Carrot: Remember Bugs Bunny with his signature carrot? My son drew inspiration to eat this scrumptious vegetable from this iconic toon, and loves it to date. This is the best vegetable for your vision health. Carrots also boost immunity, help in production of blood cells and hoist metabolism. Carrot is packed with the punch of vitamin A like no other vegetable. It also has fiber, vitamins C & K. Feed it as a part of finger food platter, grate it and add it to the idli or add it to pasta if you please.

10. Fresh Green Garbanzos (Chholiya): Fresh green chickpeas are the winter food that tastes super good. It contains virtually no transfats or saturated fats. . It promotes a healthy digestive tract, reducing the risk of some types of cancer, controlling diabetes and maintaining healthy blood glucose levels. This one is an absolute delight with the pods hanging from long leafy stems. You can get these at most vegetable vendors. Beat them raw or boil them, add some tomatoes, onions, salt, lemon juice and red chilli powder and serve as a healthy snack to your little ones. Chholiya is “nutrient dense”, containing good amounts of vitamins A,C,& E, potassium, iron, manganese, copper, zinc and calcium, folate and fiber.

11. Ginger: The goodness of ginger just cannot be ignored. Winter is the perfect time to take the advantage of the medicinal properties of ginger. Ginger not only keeps the body warm but also helps in speeding up body metabolism. Ginger is rich in antioxidant, and when taken with honey it an excellent remedy to fight cold and flu. Ginger also helps you to build a strong immune system. Though it is not a dish in itself, it adds zing to most Indian dishes.

12. Garlic: Garlic not only makes food tasty but also helps to prevent many medical problems. Like ginger, garlic also helps in building strong body resistance to fight winter cold and flu. It also aids in digestion and lowers bad cholesterol.

Dried Fruits & Nuts: Dried fruit and nuts make a delicious snack between meals for the kids. You could even sneak-in a handful of these in your kid’s tiffin box. It’s a first- hand tip from my personal experiences. Even the fussy kids don’t mind eating dried fruits and nuts when discovered in their tiffin boxes.

Their combination of protein and carbohydrates will satisfy body fuel needs, help in tissue growth and in better concentration. The nuts that are great in Indian winters are: almonds, walnuts, pistachios, and peanuts. Dried fruits that make a great snack choice are: raisins, apricots, dates, plums and figs. Dried fruits and nuts will not only keep your kids warm but will also satisfy their sweet cravings in a healthy way. They are a powerhouse of nutrients like omega 3 fatty acids, vitamins E & A, protein and fiber. They help lower bad cholesterol and increase good cholesterol; they also keep diabetes and heart problems under check.

Other Food Delicacies: Try avoiding the greasy bites at snack time and replace them with these healthier options given below:
(a) Steamed Idlis
(b) Steamed Dhoklas
(c) Poha (Beaten rice)
(d) Upma
(e) Beans chilla/yellow moong dal chilla/green moong dal chilla

Hot Soups: A bowl of hot soup on a cold winter evening is just divine. Remember, packaged soup don’t make for a healthy choice. Some of the healthy winter soup options are: tomato soup/vegetable soup/tomato-spinach soup/carrot-bean soup/clear chicken noodle soup/wild mushroom soup/tomato shorba/ tomato rasam, etc.

There are varied flavors available during winters and the children have enough colours, textures and tastes to choose from. So, entice your little tykes to experience lots of seasonal tastes and textures that will not only satiate their taste buds but also provide ample nourishment.

Tuesday, 13 May 2014

Parentune.com : Parenting A Teenager

What is the toughest job? You should ask this to a parent of a teenager, it is easier to rule a country than to raise a teenager. The travails of Sarah Palin on the campaign trail were probably nothing compared to her travails at home as the mother of a teenager!

From experience as a has-been teenager, and now a mother of one, I can certify that this is the most difficult part of growing up, both for the child as well as for the parent. There is a new challenge each day! Every gesture or word of the parent is taken in the literal sense but if anything is said by the parent, then they have to hear that they did not understand the purport of the words expressed by the child.

There are moments when you, the parent, would think you are caged in the vicious circle of arguments and you just don’t know the way to get out of it. Every point has to be noted and clarified and if you are unwilling to clarify it then you are not co operating. ‘Why’ and ‘how’ are the two questions that will be haunting you from time to time but you are supposed to act as the one who can never have any question and if by mistake you ask one then you will be told that they have the discretion of not answering them and you have to accept that.

For the child, this is the period in which they come to love, respect and acknowledge their sex, and they are caught in a vortex of emotions where they want to prove to the world that they are unique in their own way. Physical changes, both among boys and girls, could make them feel depressed at one point, and sometimes give rise to feelings of inadequacy, which the parent needs to appreciate and counter with careful support.

Every issue is sensitive! Be it studies, friends, love life, school anything and everything under the sky comes under the scanner. The parent needs to deal with every issue with a certain point of sensitivity and compassion.

As a parent we have to understand and analyse the crux of the matter and deal with it compassionately. We are not allowed to be rude or illogical at any given point. Teens face a massive change emotionally as well as physically and the only way to deal with the change is to be understanding.

Monday, 12 May 2014

Parentune.com - Summer Theater Workshop Noida

SUMMER THEATER WORKSHOP Age Group: 7 to 14 Date: 12-May-2014 to 30-May-2014 Timings: 09:30 AM - 12:00 PM Address: Sector-44, J- Block, 1st Floor, Noida About the event: Unique training, learning and fun filled theatre orientation camp for children! Students will learn vocal technique, acting, movement and basic musical theatre production. They will also create their own theatrical dialogue/narrative in a musical review format. A final performance will be presented for families on the last day of the workshop.

Friday, 9 May 2014

Celebrity Parent on Parentune.com -Tara Sharma

A celebrity actor, producer of TV shows, and a mother to two young boys, Tara Sharma is as zesty as it gets. She is known for her enthusiasm, her never-say-die attitude towards life, and to say the least her pristine skin. But we at parentune love her for something else...her role as a mother. “Parenting is the most incredible journey of life and the hardest too. You want to do your best in it because of the people involved—your own children,” says this celeb-mom. When it comes to her children, Zen (4 1/2) and Kai (2 1/2) Tara has no airs and neither does she want her children to develop any. Parentune catches up with her. Here are some excerpts.

Q Between your professional assignments, other responsibilities, and taking care of your children, how do you manage to strike a balance?

A For me, it is important to be near my children. I am a hands-on mom and if possible, like to have them around me so that I can check on them or reach them if they need me. Fortunately I am in that space. When not shooting, I work from home and even on shoots, when their schedules allow it, I often take them along. They enjoy being on the sets and watching all the activity happening around them. And thanks to technology, I can manage work without having to seclude myself in an office. I can take calls from the play ground, send emails without having to block my children out totally. But nonetheless it is tough. At times, I have to close doors and I sometimes feel guilty about doing that.
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Q Your show, The Tara Sharma Show, which has had a very successful run for 4 years and 2 seasons with Season 3 starting soon, is also about parenting. Where did you get the inspiration from for a parenting show?
A When my son Zen was around 9 months, I was at home taking care of him. I love being a hands-on mum whether it is about feeding or narrating bedtime tales, with help when needed and if possible, of course!. But I also slowly wanted to get back to work. It was then that I thought of combining somethings that I love— performing, business and parenting, and something which I could involve my children in too, without it being intrusive in any way.

I have seen so many shows—travel, carpentry, cooking, crafts—but nothing about parenting that is light-hearted, fun, and shows the life of a normal mother. I co-produce the show with The 120 Media Collective and we have enjoyed 2 successful seasons with the 3rd coming up.

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Q But do you think your celebrity status affects your parenting style and the show?
A At a parenting level, no. At home, I am a normal mother and have a normal life. My children go to school, to the park to play, and I take them out for dinner etc—things that most mothers do for their children. Also I am no major big star. In fact through the show I find people seem to relate to me as a pretty regular mum.

On the show also, I am very clear that I am not an expert on being a parent. My show portrays that—the life of a regular mom and her dealings with her children. The show started out as a blog where I was just expressing myself as a parent. The blog was doing well, when I figured that I should do a show on the same--something that all parents can relate to. www.tarasharmashow.com
For me, the show is the start of a second career and a fulfilling one at that. It gives me the chance to do something I love and am passionate about but along with my children.

Q And how do your children react to the fact that their mom is such a well-known face?
A I am no big star as I always say and even if a little known, to be honest, I have never hidden this fact from them nor have kept them hidden away. Each to their own is my parenting motto, you have to do what works for you. Some celebs are ok showing their kids like me, within our comfort level of course, and some are not. In our case they have a normal life, going to parks to play, hanging around with friends etc. I am protective definitely but they know what I do and in fact love it. They have travelled all over the world with me for the show and when we are not doing shoots, Zen will ask me “Why aren’t we shooting? Where are we going next?” So for me it’s been a great way to be with both of them and my husband (his company co-produces the show, and work!)

Q But what about difficult moments when they get into fights or sibling rivalry surfaces?
A They are both very close in age and therefore I think the rivalry doesn’t really exist between them. Yes, there are fist fights, squabbles, etc. but nothing very serious. It is like any other children. They fight but they love each other too. When not near, they will miss each other. On shoots too, they keep company and take care of each other. On my part, I do not take sides, when they get into a tussle. I try to sort the issue but be impartial.

Q Any beautiful moment, in your life as a parent, that you want to share with us?
A Each moment as a parent is unique and beautiful. For me it is the most important aspect of life. From their little smiles to tears, everything is special for me. I believe that when you have children, you not only become a parent, but you grow as a human being too. You become more compassionate and sensitive.
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Q Anything in your own parenting that you think you could have done better?
A Every day, I feel, I could be a better parent. It is a continous learning process. I experience a range of emotions around my sons---from being happy, satisfied, to feeling guilty. On some days, my sons will say something which gets me thinking “What have I done wrong? What should I avoid doing the next time around?” and then there are moments when they make you feel great. But every day, I am thankful to have my children and my family around me.

Parentune: Creative Writing Workshops Pune 6 May to 27 May 2014


CREATIVE WRITING WORKSHOP Age Group: 10 to 16 Date: 06-May-2014 to 27-May-2014 Timings: 11:00 AM - 12:30 PM Address: Shop No.6, Regent Plaza, Baner Pashan Link Road, Baner, Behind Symantec, Pune About the event: The participants will not only discover the joy of writing, but also pick up the basic writing skills in this workshop. On the cards are following sessions: • Experience pictures come alive • Ideas scramble across pages • Imagine the world differently with a blindfold on your eyes • Weave stories around the sound • Learn picture composition • Build stories from stray words and sentences • Write fan fiction on your favourite movie or cartoon characters

Parentune.com - Summer Camp in Delhi 10 May to 10 July 2014

SUMMER CAMP Age Group: 2 to 14 Date: 10-May-2014 to 10-Jul-2014 Timings: 02:00 PM - 06:00 PM Address: Arundhya public school, Main Vikas Marg, Karkardooma, Near post office, Delhi About the event: Kids would get an opportunity to learn & enjoy various activities such as :- • Reading club • Art & Craft • Logical thinking • Skill development